Before it is too late, they are gone or whatever happens.
My lovely wife, if I can please refer to her, is loving our kids a lot. Like A LOT. And what do they do – mess around with her constantly, make her angry for no good reason, shout. A lot of…Misery stuff for no good reason.
And yes, yes, every human goes through stages, they learn and grow over the years, your mom was sucking me last night, etc.
I am a bit harsher towards the kids so don’t let them fok around too much. And will continue to be like this. Reason being – I believe a parent should not be a friend. We are guides for these little punks, need to navigate them in life and, unfortunately, our most important job is to keep them alive and away of troubles. If I need to be harsher, so be it, if they don’t like me for that, so be it.
Again, only way these little people will understand how much we love them if they have their own kids one day. Until then – we are dispensable.